Feb 13, 2012

Wisful Origins

Origins blogfest hosted by DL Hammons of Cruising Altitude, Katie Mills (Creepy Query Girl), Alex J. Cavanaugh and Matthew MacNish  (Quintessentially Questionable Query Experiment).

How I ended up here...

I always loved reading. I loved library days at school best, and my mother took us to the public library every week. What started me wanting to create my own stories was a teacher who read to us at nap time--Willy Wonka, James and the Giant Peach, glorious and imaginative adventures.

A shy and quiet person [still am], my parents sent me to horseback riding lessons, hoping I'd find the courage to be more extroverted. Horses were my passion. Little old me could make half ton creatures dance. I had special connections with many of the horses. One would follow me around like a puppy, his nose pressed against my cheek. Therefore, it is not surprising my first attempt at writing was a story about a horse. I was 8 and remember his name was Wesco, but not much else about it.

Then my grandmother gave me a hard bound copy of Anne of Green Gables. Oh, I loved that book. I still have it. Other stories--not about horses--started playing in my head. I didn't always write them down, but I kept creating them.

I majored in Journalism in undergrad, wrote news for the college radio station, and, gravitated toward advertising and marketing. When I could, I'd write fiction, dreaming of writing the next great American novel.


I moved to New York City, sold advertising to network TV stations, did some other marketing jobs, started a novel, which I still have, about coming of age. Many lines were about loneliness, which a friend teased me about for years to come. It's where Semper Audacia came from. I told her two years ago I was going to rewrite "Alone" in space. So, I did.

I moved to DC, worked in TV, the business side. Would write when I could. Started another novel with Player Piano as the inspiration. Never finished that one either. I got laid up with carpal tunnel, in danger of losing the use of both of my hands. Life took some wicked and wrong turns among the good ones.

Husband and I moved out west to Oregon. I was floundering, unhappy, didn't know what to do with myself next. My mother said on the phone one day, "You were always good at writing, go write me something." So this next phase where I write prolifically and actually finish many works began.

Last year I released Plantgirl, Translations, Small Graces and Semper Audacia. This year I'll be releasing The Backworlds, Stopover at the Backworlds' Edge and The Augmentation of Hetty Locklear. The Tumbas will be coming out in the Wandering Weeds anthology, too.

However this all turns out, I'm doing what I was always meant to do. Writing and finding the observatory have made for a happy life. If everything before was necessary to end up here, it was worth it.

When did your need to write begin?

64 comments:

Lynda R Young said...

I love your story and progress through your writing life. Wonderful.

Donna Hole said...

Rascal Flatts sang "God bless the crooked road that lead me straight to you." The same applies to your writing journey Mary.

I'm glad you've been around.

........dhole

Empty Nest Insider said...

I also wrote and read the news at a college radio station. Sorry about the carpal tunnel in both hands. That must've been a horrible experience, and I hope you're doing well now. I really enjoyed your story! Julie

Annalisa Crawford said...

It's amazing how a good teacher can have such a profound impact on people!

Stina Lindenblatt said...

I wanted to be a writing ever since I fell in love with an adventure series (MG) as a kid. Unfortunately I wasn't a very good writer, and I never had a teacher who inspired me to write. I thought you had to born a writer. Eventually I realized that wasn't true.

Glad you found that writing is what makes you happy. :)

Miranda Hardy said...

You are in a writing frenzy now. I liked the horse story. I can imagine you writing that.

Civil War Horror (Sean McLachlan) said...

I love the cover on Plantgirl! Very eye catching and different. Keep on writing!

Civil War Horror (Sean McLachlan) said...

forgot to mention that I'm married to an astronomer. She studies galactic nuclei through the infrared. Fun stuff!

L.G.Smith said...

You're on fire now! Sometimes the best ingredient for being a writer is experience. :))

Marta Szemik said...

I really like your story. Carpal tunnel scares the heck out of me.
Moms always know what's best for us:)

Stuart Nager said...

Always great to find out more. I, too, suffer from CT in both wrists...sucks to have that happen when you love to write.

M Pax said...

Progress never ends, Lynda.

It was a very crooked road, Donna.

Writing for the radio station was fun, Julie. I had my own feature one year, then became the weather girl the next year. Because the regular one didn't show up.

It is, Annalisa. I remember her voice and the wonder those stories instilled in the whole class.

We become writers at any time, Stina. Glad you found your passion.

It had pictures, too, Miranda. lol

Thank you, Sean. Cool research your wife does. The researcher at PMO has been studying low luminosity galaxies.

I think so, too, LG. I think it helps to have lived some.

It still acts up from time to time, Marta, but it's much better since I left that job. Licorice root tea, so I discovered, does miracles for the pain. Moms are very wise.

Matthew MacNish said...

So cool to get to know you better, Mary!

M Pax said...

You should try licorice root, Stuart. Read about the side effects first. A few hours after drinking the tea, when I have flare ups, and most of the pain is gone. I'm so glad I found that out by accident [I love licorice].

Thanks for stopping in, Matt.

Tonja said...

I like how your path was kind of twisty, but got you to where you wanted to go. Congratulations on all your recent success.

cleemckenzie said...

Anne of Green Gables, YES! I have several old photos of me clutching that book. I think I carried it around with me to every photo op and family outing that year.

Black Beauty next. Then when my kids came along there were so many books to share and I'm sure they each added to my desire to write.

Lovely post.

Julie said...

What a great story, and I can certainly relate to taking some wrong turns before ending up where I am now. I didn't know you had such a love for horses. I've never been around horses, but I've always wanted to learn to ride as they seem like such amazing animals.

I'm glad that you have found what makes you happy!

Margo Kelly said...

Thank you for sharing your story with us!

Scarlett said...

*Floundering and unhappy* have a way of coaxing the writer out of us, don't they? Giving a voice to an unfulfilled life is what writing does best, I think.

It looks as if you've found it! I am impressed with your focus and dedication once you chose the path.

Looking forward to hearing more of your voice here.

nutschell said...

Hi M!
I'm dropping by from the Origins Blogfest. Loved reading about how you got started. Seems like we both started as readers. :)

Nutschell
www.thewritingnut.com

Steven said...

I also experienced unhappiness and restlessness before really digging into writing, almost like something in my blood could not make me happy if I were not writing constantly. It takes a brave person to move forward and put a book out for all to see and scrutinize.

Brinda said...

I'm so glad you found your way. It was meant to be. :)

Heather Day Gilbert said...

Like the sci-fi, astronomy bent--two of my favorite things. So great that you've gotten so many books pubbed! Nice to meet you through the blogfest!

DL Hammons said...

There are a great many of us who have taken detours or otherwise different paths before finding that writing passion again. I'm glad you seem to have found your groove! Thank you for sharing your ORIGIN with us today! :)

Jay Noel said...

I'm participating in this blogfest too!

Amazing how that one book shaped your love for reading/writing. I'm the same way.

Glad you decided to find yourself and turn back to creative writing.

M Pax said...

Twists & turns make for great stories, Tonja.

Anne was wonderful, Lee. Black Beauty was good, too, but it was Man O' War I read about 500x.

Yes, it wasn't always about stars and space blasters, Julie. :) Journeys take us places & life is one that often takes us places we don't expect.

Thanks for stopping in, Margo! Good to see you today.

Nice meeting you, Scarlett. I think because I neglected what I love is why I became unhappy.

Hi Nut! I loved the places I could go when reading. Still do.

I understand that restlessness, Steven.

I'm glad, too, Brinda.

Nice meeting you, Heather. I enjoyed reading of your journey.

Glad you found your groove, too, DL. Those detours may become our best sellers one day. :)

Good to see you, Jay. Books are magical. Glad we're all writing.

Stephen Tremp said...

You've had a busy life and taken some detours, but through it all are a number of stories that have come to life. Good luck with your writing and congrats on your successes!

Tara Tyler said...

many twists and turns, all leading to success =)
great beginning!

Belle said...

Your life is certainly different than it was before. It is nice your mom steered you back to writing. I'm looking forward to reading Backworlds. Great post.

Ashley Nixon said...

So many books! Semper Audacia seems so interesting! Love the title. It's so wonderful that you're doing what you were meant to do.

Nancy Thompson said...

Wow, I didn't know you were a journalism major! And it was your mom that told you to write. How awesome is that? I wish my mom supported me in my writing. There is one thing I will never understand about you, Mary, and that is how you can write so much and do all the e-book stuff. I can only imagine how much work that must be. As a writer having a hard time getting momentum on my second novel in 2 years, I salute you!

Alex J. Cavanaugh said...

Mary, is there anything you haven't done????
Sorry it's taken me so long to visit today. Never expected so many participants!!

J.L. Campbell said...

I have to admire your energy, Mary, even though it took you some time to get back to your writing.

Christine Rains said...

What a wonderful origins story. I think all writers start off young even if they don't realize it, and if they don't stick with it, it comes back around later in life. I'm glad you found what makes you happy. You're talented and I can't wait to read more of your stories in the future. :)

LynnRush said...

Great story. Write on, my friend!!!!!

Karen Elizabeth Brown said...

A high school teacher told me he wanted to hear more from me and I never forgot it!

Thanks for sharing yourself with us. It's like peeling an onion and taking the layers off. We find more and more pieces to that wonderful person M Pax!

Rusty Webb said...

Awesome. My dad sold advertising on TV and radio. He thought it was the greatest job in the world.

I tinkered with a couple of stories for over a decade before I ever really starting producing anything resembling a finished work.

Danette said...

It's funny how we can do so many things trying to meet the expectations that society has for us-- like you, working in advertising and working in television. Then one day, we realize that we need to do the thing that made us happy all those years ago. . . writing! Terrific!

btw: I was a huge horse lover too (read every Black Stallion book there was, My Friend Flicka, etc). I didn't draw very well but I could draw horses quite well. My parents attitude was to try to scare me off horses. My mother volunteered me for cleaning stalls at a nearby racing stable. I loved it! Even in the cold and at 4 a.m. Didn't quite accomplish what she hoped it would.

Rek said...

Wonderful story...and now you back to doing something that not just you are good at but that makes you happy.

M Pax said...

Congrats on your successes, Stephen.

Twists and turns are great for novels, Tara. I could have done w/o them in my life.

There's many things I haven't done, Alex. I think you need a vacation. :)

Thanks, Joy. I love your writing.

Thank you, Christine. I look forward to reading your work.

Ditto, Lynn.

Great teachers really do make a difference, don't they? Glad you keep writing, Karen.

I didn't like that job, Rusty. I did like my job in DC, however, the people sucked & I was in pain all of the time.

Yes, Danette. To find happiness, we have to tend to our passions. I've come to see that, and we need to learn to be grateful for what we have. I didn't mind cleaning stalls either. My father nixed me becoming a horse trainer.

Glad you're writing, Rek. I enjoy the excerpts you post.

D.G. Hudson said...

You've had an interesting life, Mary. I wanted to live in the Village in New York in my twenties. I went to the west coast instead.

Thanks for sharing the story, I'm already a follower of your interesting blog.

Anne H said...

I love reading about how great you are doing.... you are great! And Happy Valentine's Day!

Melissa Sugar said...

What an inspirational story. You are finally doing what you were destined to do. Congratulations on all of your releases. I love success stories.

Madeleine Maddocks said...

I love your journey. I also enjoyed the stories we were read to during an afternoon session when the school had staffing issues. I love that you are enjoying your journey too.

LTM said...

That's a fantastic story! I loved Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and Anne of Green Gables, too. And I really loved when they'd have "story time" at the library, and the librarian would read aloud. Seven Chinese Brothers...

It's so cool that hubs is so supportive. I'm luck to have the same setup. Can't wait to read SA~ :o) <3

Ella said...

Mary, this was fascinating to read and amazing! I think I'm off to go find the stuff I wrote long ago. It is tucked somewhere in the attic~
So happy your found your way!

M Pax said...

Interesting isn't always good, DG. lol I didn't live in the Village, but I hung out there a lot. I love the west coast.

You're great, Anne. Happy Valentines.

Thank you, Melissa. It feels good to spend time doing what I love.

Teachers reading seems to be a great thing for young minds, Madeleine.

I loved Seven Chinese Brothers, Leigh. That was a fantastic and beautiful book.

Nice, Ella. I enjoyed reading everyone's ideas for books when they were young. They were so fantastic.

Rettakat said...

I've read bits and pieces of your story here and there, but LOVED reading it all put together like this. So so interesting!

Hope your Valentine's Day was marvelous. :-)

tfwalsh said...

It seems that writing was always with you... one way or another...

Melissa Bradley said...

I've always loved horses too. My favorite tales were Black Beauty and Misty of Chincoteague. They are magnificent animals.

I took a long, winding road to publication myself. I'm very glad we're both here, able to share our passion. :)

Jackie Jordan said...

A very interesting story. Good luck in your endeavors.

Juliana said...

Great story. I'm glad you found your way.
Thanks for sharing!

M Pax said...

Valentines was kind of sad, but not because of my Valentine. Hope yours was great, Loretta.

Definitely telling myself stories was, Tania.

Those were great books, Melissa. I read pretty much every book that existed that was about a horse. Unless it was written after I graduated hs. lol

Thank you, Jackie.

I'm glad, too, Julianna.

Sarah said...

Sounds like you've been very productive despite the carpal tunnel, which seems like a writer's worst enemy. It's wonderful to hear that your mother encouraged you to write again! Great origin story!

Lindsay said...

My first story was about a horse too. A boy and a horse and a wolf that were stranded on a desert island (so basically I pillaged from The Black Stallion and added an animal :P). I think I was 7 or 8 too. The good old days. ;)

LynnRush said...

Thanks for sharing your story. I'm so glad you found what you were always meant to do!!!! Write on!

Ellie Garratt said...

Such a pleasure reading about your writing journey. Thank you for sharing it with us.

Milo James Fowler said...

"Go write me something" -- love it. My parents read every one of my stories that are published, and I value their support.

Maurice Mitchell said...

Great inspiration. When I was a kid I loved Willy Wonka, Peach, Glass Elevator and others like that.

Pk Hrezo said...

That's so awesome, Mary. We have so many opportunities now that writers didn't have before. Of course that means its more compettitive than ever, but hey, if the story is good, the story is good. Period.

M Pax said...

As I've said, licorice root works wonders, Sarah. Great meeting you.

Great story, Lindsay. I would have devoured it back then.

Write on, Lynn.

Great to see you, Ellie.

Family support is great, Milo.

They were very inspirational stories, Maurice.

It's great to have these opportunities opening up, PK.

Nicki Elson said...

Your mom is so cool. :) How scary about the carpal tunnel! I always figure that even when I'm old and my knees won't work and I no longer leave my house, at least I'll be able to write - if that was taken away, gah! But maybe fore you the scare was exactly what you needed to get you moving as quickly as you are right now. You are a marvelous inspiration to so many of us!

M Pax said...

As I've said, licorice root helps a lot. Nice seeing you, Nicki.

Jeremy Bates said...

Just continue writing and imagination to create and write good awesome story.